03 Kwi 2018, Wto 14:10, PID: 739783
Ludzie którzy żałują, że zostali rodzicami:
"The day her daughter was born, the exact moment the tiny baby was placed in her arms, “I felt like, and still feel like, I made a mistake.”
“Anyone who says they loved being a parent,” wrote another mother, “is a liar or on drugs.”
A father pitched in: his life had turned into that of “a machine”.
“Seeing all my single friends, or married friends without children, made me jealous. It’s like I died and lost my previous life. I entered a new life with much less joy, sex, sleep, FUN… I do wish people would talk about it more openly. Thank you, REAL people who are true to their feelings. I believe most parents suffer but they stay quiet with a fake smile.”
“When she was placed in my hands for the first time, it was, ‘Oh, no. What have I done? This was a huge mistake.’”
“I’d travelled to 180 countries. I’d almost died of dehydration in a jungle in Madagascar. I’d been on a sailing boat in the Indian ocean that had been attacked by pirates. I’d almost died from food poisoning in Turkmenistan.” So she felt she could handle motherhood. “What happened over the next few years I couldn’t have imagined in my worst nightmares. I felt like I was in a plot in a crime book, where the woman is being suffocated by motherhood.”
Her theory is that older generations of mothers have repressed all their negative parenting experiences “just to survive”."
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle...g-children
"The day her daughter was born, the exact moment the tiny baby was placed in her arms, “I felt like, and still feel like, I made a mistake.”
“Anyone who says they loved being a parent,” wrote another mother, “is a liar or on drugs.”
A father pitched in: his life had turned into that of “a machine”.
“Seeing all my single friends, or married friends without children, made me jealous. It’s like I died and lost my previous life. I entered a new life with much less joy, sex, sleep, FUN… I do wish people would talk about it more openly. Thank you, REAL people who are true to their feelings. I believe most parents suffer but they stay quiet with a fake smile.”
“When she was placed in my hands for the first time, it was, ‘Oh, no. What have I done? This was a huge mistake.’”
“I’d travelled to 180 countries. I’d almost died of dehydration in a jungle in Madagascar. I’d been on a sailing boat in the Indian ocean that had been attacked by pirates. I’d almost died from food poisoning in Turkmenistan.” So she felt she could handle motherhood. “What happened over the next few years I couldn’t have imagined in my worst nightmares. I felt like I was in a plot in a crime book, where the woman is being suffocated by motherhood.”
Her theory is that older generations of mothers have repressed all their negative parenting experiences “just to survive”."
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle...g-children